Put On Your Shoes

by Liz Fisher

Liz Fisher and Rabbi Yitz Greenberg

Liz Fisher studies with Rabbi Yitz Greenberg

As parents of school age kids, we’ve mostly made the shift from being woken up to waking the kids up. But waking the kids up each morning is only part of the job. I’m pretty sure, in fact, that the four most common words I say every morning are “put your shoes on”. My kids aren’t so hard to wake up, and they pretty much get through the eating breakfast, brushing teeth routine on their own, but the shoes? Every single morning. “Put. Your. Shoes. On”. Over and over and over again.

This weekend is the Jewish holiday of Shavuot, and there is a cool campaign amongst a group of rabbis and others to get the #Torah hashtag to the top of the most popular list. So there has been a lot of tweeting Torah today, and I am enjoying the 140 character at a time learning.

This morning, Rabbi Sari Laufer (@RabbiLaufer) tweeted: “Midrash: The night before receiving the #Torah, the children of Israel slept all of that night,& Moshe had to rouse them to receive #Torah.”

I’ve been thinking about that rousing, what it meant at Sinai and what it means in our generation. Yesterday I had the extraordinary privilege of learning with Rabbi Yitz Greenberg. At one point, he was asked about the generation gap. His response: for hundreds of generations, from Sinai to today, parents have had to teach their children that this (Torah, community, Judaism) is relevant and meaningful.

For hundreds of generations, we have had to wake our kids up. Yesterday’s learning was part of a conversation convened by the Schusterman Philanthropic Network, The Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies, and our team at NEXT: A Division of Birthright Israel Foundation. We were there to hear from Birthrighters themselves and their peers – innovators and entrepreneurs throughout the Jewish community who are helping us think about how to think about Birthright, the gift of a free 10 day trip to Israel, and the days, months, and years that follow that trip.

In many ways, for many participants, Birthright Israel is that waking up, the rousing to receive Torah – in the most broad sense of the word. And it does a pretty good job of that.

But Birthright Israel doesn’t make breakfast. It doesn’t remind you to pack your backpack. It doesn’t nag you to put on your shoes. And it doesn’t do what is my ultimate goal with my kids – get you to the point where you do all these things on your own because it just makes sense to you.

That job – the backpacks, the shoes, the understanding of relevance and applicability, that’s up to the rest of us. I’m honored to work with a group of people who think about this everyday. But we can’t think of it alone. Whatever your background, whatever your religion (or lack thereof), it is our role to pass our values on to the next generation. How are we doing that? And what are they passing up to us? And how do we all get to a place where we don’t need to be reminded to put our shoes on?

 

Liz Fisher is the Managing Director for NEXT: A Division of Birthright Israel Foundation. Find her on twitter at @Liz_Fisher. The photo of Liz and Rabbi Yitz Greenberg was taken by @TheChaviva.

NEXT’s National Opportunities

Our tools are yours to use as you reach out and engage with Birthright Israel trip alumni in your community.

  • Give the Birthright Alumni members of your cohort the tools to do Shabbat their own way with NEXT Shabbat.
  • Check out and share our compilation of Holiday Resource Guides to demystify the Jewish Holidays.
  • Empower Birthright Alumni to take back Passover with Passover Seder Grants.

Tu B’Shvat Haggadot

With Tu B’Shvat becoming more and more popular, there is a greater demand for quality Haggadot for the Tu B’Shvat Seder.  Help your participants and your programming team find a Seder that’s right for them, starting with our list!

  • Hazon’s Tu B’Shvat Seder and Sourcebook is true to their mission.  Beautifully designed, it incorporates ancient and modern text to encourage awareness of the world around us.  Hazon also provides a Leaders Guide, with tips for organizing and hosting the Tu B’Shvat Seder.
  • Hillel’s Joseph Meyerhoff Center for Jewish Learning provides a downloadable Haggadah entitled Trees, Creation & Creativity.  It is accompanied by a through appendix to provide context to the holiday celebration.
  • Jewcology presents a Flowchart Haggadah.  This entirely graphical one-page design provides a basic guide to the Seder that you can customize with your own stories, songs, and teachings.
  • The Velveteen Rabbi has developed a customized haggadah filled with poetry, commentary, and a final call to action.
  • The Jewish National Fund’s Haggadah is a great tool for program facilitation, complete with discussion questions, songs & dances, and recipes for the Seder.

 

Email us at Alef@birthrightisraelnext.org to add to this list.

Staying Kosher on a Budget

While many of your participants may not keep Kosher, Kosher on a Budget offers a great breakdown of how to prep a Holiday menu without breaking the bank.

Read more here.

Rosh Hashana & Sukkot Prep on a Budget

Planning for Rosh Hashana: Getting Organized

Inviting Guests, Making a Budget & Meal Planning for Rosh Hashana and Sukkot

Shopping Lists for the Jewish Holidays

Rosh Hashana Post-Mortem with Recipes

Apple Challah Recipe for Rosh Hashana

Peach Noodle Kugel Recipe for Break-the-Fast

Pesach Prep on a Budget

How to Shop for Passover on a Budget, Part 1 and Part 2

On Passover Bondage & Credit Card Debt

Frugal Hostess Gifts for Passover Seder

Passover Side Dish Recipes

Passover Charoset Recipes

Passover Menu Planning Made Easy

Challah image by Grongar, licensed under Creative Commons.

Passover Haggadot

Did you know that the Maxwell House Haggadah is the most widely-used haggadah in the U.S.? Since 1934, over 40 million copies have been printed and distributed around the world. Now, nearly 80 years later, there are just as many varieties of haggadot as there are blends of coffee.

Help your participants personalize their Seders by finding a haggadah that matches their vision and values. Below, we’ve collected a variety of options to choose from (some of which are free!) 

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Many of the titles listed below can be found on your local book store or Amazon.com and range from $5-$15 each.

Image by Brownpau, licensed under Creative Commons.